Nature vs nurture? Here's a follow up to my original "A tale of two babies" post - how are they comparing now and who comes out on top?
Weaning
Initially
I thought this was going to be a Doofy win as he was a champ and within
3 weeks of starting weaning at 4+ months already had a more varied diet
than us! Iz was definitely slower accepting the spoon but has always
been happy to feed herself, and with SO much gusto, that I think this
has to be a draw.
Verdict: draw
Verdict: draw
Breastfeeding
Right
from labour ward Iz was always going to win this one! Although winning
this one means she does lose at another later category...
Verdict: Iz win by clear margin!
Teething
Oh
how I long for the days of D teething again. A little bit of dentinox,
very occasionally some nurofen, and he was as happy as Larry. Iz on the
other hand... not so easily placated or satisfied!!
Verdict: Doofy win
Sleeping
I
don't even know where to start with this one! You can read about D's
sleeplessness here, here and here. I've been too sleep-deprived to blog about
Iz's! Lol. At the moment she's going through a "let's wake up for the
day at 4am" phase. Not sure if I prefer it to her "let's feed for 2 hours solid at 2am" stage or her "let's wake up every 30 minutes throughout the night" stage... Hmmm I wonder what will be next?!
Verdict: draw - they're both as bad as each other but in different ways!
Healthiness
This
is a tricky one. Iz definitely has way more coughs/colds/temperatures
than D did (poor younger sibling!!) but D had already had 2 hospital
stays by 9 months.
Verdict: undetermined
Nursery settling
Nursery
settling was hard with D. It was the first time for both of us and he hated it initially. Now he absolutely loves going though :) Iz on the
other hand seemed to take to it like a duck to water. Few tears during
the first 2 sessions and just happy giggles since.
Verdict: Iz win
Transition to formula
Tied
in with the breastfeeding above - I think Iz's love of boob hindered
her here as she was very reluctant to swap nice cosy snugly breastfeeds
for a plastic tommee tippee cup! We're getting there slowly (it's only
taken 3 months!).
Verdict: Doofy win
Crawling
D
took his time building up to crawling. A few days of planking followed
by bottom in the air followed by attempts at commando crawling etc etc
until eventually a "proper" crawl occurred. Iz just woke up one day, did
a plank and then crawled in the afternoon. Not sure if it was to keep
up with D or to escape from him tbh!
Verdict: Iz win
Car journeys
Don't be fooled - D did not do this often... |
Living in London we don't do loads of car journeys but everyone says babies get lulled to sleep in the car so we thought it was a great plan to book a driving holiday from Vegas to LA when D was 5 months old... Fast forward to lunchtime on the first driving day - after nonstop screaming from Vegas to the Hoover Dam (and beyond!) we realised D was *not* a car fan! He's now ok as we've hooked up a DVD player in the back but Iz has always been ok, ever since a baby. Phew.
Verdict: Iz win
Mummy love
Yes
I know it's a complete stereotype but for my two it's definitely true. D
is a real mummy's boy (and gives the best cuddles!) whilst Iz is a
proper Daddy's girl (her arms flap so fast when he walks in the room she
looks like she might take off!!).
Verdict: Doofy win
So there it is. Some they win, some they lose. Overall (luckily) their positive sides outweigh any not-quite-so-perfect parts ;)
What about your kids? If you have more than one how would they fare in a "Battle of the babies"?
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So there it is. Some they win, some they lose. Overall (luckily) their positive sides outweigh any not-quite-so-perfect parts ;)
What about your kids? If you have more than one how would they fare in a "Battle of the babies"?
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